Unfortunately today's educational system often demands children to conform, and fit in a tiny box of expectations that just don't work for all children to thrive. Just because a child doesn't fit in that box, doesn't mean there is anything wrong with them. Advocate, advocate, advocate for what you know is best for your child. Help the teachers understand. If the school can't find solutions and resources, come up with them yourself and bring them to the school. This book has some great insight on this, as well as the authors tedtalks.